Simply for the Sake of Beauty

Do you have something in you home just because it’s beautiful?

William Morris once said…

Have nothing in your home that you do not know to be useful or believe to be beautiful.

A few weeks ago I brought something into my home that I love. She’s beautiful and I’m smitten every single time I look at her.

I wish she was more useful to me… trust me I’ve tried, but have had to settle for adding learning how to play her to my bucket list. In the mean time I’m okay with her just being eye candy to an empty little corner of my home.

For the last 10 years, this corner has been home to our Christmas tree. Other than that it’s been empty… as if waiting for the day my cousin would call and ask if I had a home for her.

Of course I said yes. She belonged to my grandmother who brought her into their home 78 years ago. She had her at hello.  They were instant friends.

A few weeks ago the best piano movers in Cincinnati delivered her to me…

They patiently moved her around until she was in the perfect spot…

Then the nicest man - Lou Proske, a first violinist of the Dayton Philharmonic Symphony, stopped by to visit. He listened to her and made sure her sweet little voice was perfectly tuned…

Once everyone left, I sat down like my grandmother must have the day she received her beautiful Howard Baby Grand. I stroked her ivory keys and remembered my grandmother’s beautiful Victorian home complete with a three-story turret, frosted glass wall sconces and velvet tufted sofa. I heard love and laughter… felt joy from memories that will be forever engraved in my mind…

The story from my Uncle is that my grandmother sat down and began to play beautifully, without any formal training. Maybe that would happen for me? Those piano lessons during a brief year of my life long ago never really clicked, but maybe now I would realize a hidden talent buried deep down inside of me… or maybe not. <sigh>

For now,  I am going to have to settle for just loving her and occasionally listening to her beautiful sounds when my aunt or friends stop by to play. xo Amy

P.S. If you live in the Cincinnati area and need a piano tuner, leave a comment and I’ll give you Lou’s contact information! I would highly recommend both him and the movers! Both are reasonably priced and do an excellent job!

 

5 Rules to Creating an Organized Life

These are my rules for getting organized in 2010. I’m pretty sure they will be edited along the line, but for now, this is what I’m going with…

1. ) If you don’t love it or need it….give it or throw it away. Period. Be choosy about the things you surround yourself with. The things you love are what make your house a home – if you have a problem letting go, ask yourself if it makes your home more beautiful or does it have sentimental value to you. If it’s yes to either…keep it. If it’s no…pitch it. Can’t decide in 5 seconds? Pitch. 

When determining if it’s something you “need”, ask yourself when the last time was that you used it. If it hasn’t been used in the last year…you don’t need it. Go through whatever you’re cleaning out and be faithful to these two rules. Go back a week later and see if there is anything else you can let go. I have one exception: I’m not letting go of my Calvin Kliens until I can fit into them again. I need them for inspiration :)

2. Create a place for everything and put it back in its place immediately after using it. My mother used to drive me nuts. In retrospect, I think I drove her more nuts. She knew the minute that something was missing from its place. Our house was never cluttered unless you visited my room. I now get it. It needs to become a way of life. Pick it up – put it back. Pretty simple, but  life changing when put into action.

3. Organize NOW, worry about pretty later. This is particularly difficult for me. So incredibly difficult, in fact, I’ve come to realize I’ve used it as a crutch. In my anal little mind, I want everything organized AND looking beautiful. In fact, it drives me out of my mind so much to see that I have old vinyl floors in my pantry and laundry room, that in the past, I didn’t organize or keep up with them because I knew they would still look ugly. In fact, I applied that concept to most of my home which definitely needs a makeover. The good news is to stay tuned because there will be lots of before and after pictures of my home along the way. Here’s two examples of before and after of areas in my house. The Guest Bath  The Pink Bath  There is so much left to do, but I’m thinking this will be so much fun to share with you!

I finally organized my laundry room last month  in spite of its ugliness and I swear to you it feels as good as losing 20 lbs. The areas still need a new floor and coat of paint, but that will be phase II. I did put up a little plaque, fabric bins and an inexpensive valance, but I can now live with it until phase II.  The point here is to quit making excuses and get rid of the crap. Here’s a news flash: The crap makes it uglier. Split organization and decorating into phases if you have to, just get started.

4. It doesn’t have to cost a lot. The truth is, it doesn’t have to cost ANYThing to get organized and if you have a budget of zero, you will actually save money by getting organized. It’s amazing to find what you can save and what you can find. The point here is the same as in rule 3 … just do it.  I will have a small budget; keeping an eye out for items that I already own and inexpensive bins and such to buy that will hold and store items. The goal is to find storage  items will serve a purpose and yes, look beautiful. I am a firm believer that beauty should strive to be functional and of course everyone should have beauty in their life.

5. Do something once a week. The key to creating an organized life is to do something consciously towards it every day and actively towards it every week until you have an organized life. Every day you’ll be putting things in their rightful place and every week, you should pick a new area of your life to tackle. It might be a drawer, a paper trail or the garage. The point here is taking on a project each week, however big or small, brings you one step closer to your goal.

Tomorrow I’ll show you a couple of my projects from last month…my purse and my trunk.  xoxoxo