A Simple Journal

My dear grandmother, bless her heart, was a know-it-all. She was never wrong. Ever. The classic story my father will tell you is about the time she insisted she knew where a street was and my father disagreed with her. To settle the argument he pulled out a map to prove he was right, which according to the map he was right… but did my grandmother concede that she was wrong? Not a chance. To her, it was obvious the map was wrong! Yep. that was my grandmother.

My mother is a different kind of know-it-all. Arguments with her about something that happened in the past are easy to resolve because to prove that she is correct (or wrong) all she has to do is dig through her years of calendars to see when a past event took place. It’s actually kind of fun to look back with her to see what we were doing five, ten or twenty years ago.

In the past I have tried to keep a journal, but find I just don’t really have the time to keep up with it on a daily basis. It seems that when I have journaled in the past it has been to get me through a dark or stressful time in my life – keeping a journal is something I highly recommend to relieve stress and help you work through tough times.

Last week I saw a post by Ashley over at Little Blue Boo, one of my favorite creative bloggers. She shared that she writes in a Five Year Journal. What caught my attention is that there’s just enough space for a sentence or two each day…

Each page has a place for something about this day for the next five years. I think it’s brilliant. Of course, I ordered one from Amazon immediately…

So far I’ve written about having my grandmother’s beautiful 78-year-old baby grand piano delivered to my house and Les Miserable with a friend last Friday, playing Rummy-O (my new favorite game) with my parents on Saturday night while my husband was fishing in Cumberland and what I gave to my son’s finance tonight to help with her ulcer – rejuvelac, aloe vera juice, licorice capsules and bromelain.

Another option for this 5 year journal would be to use it as a daily gratitude book. If you’re in a bit of a funk or even a huge funk – every night before you go to bed write down three things about the day that you are grateful for. Do it for a week and I promise it will make you feel better. It’s like one big hug from the universe and is a sure-fire way to pick your spirits up. Even on the worst of days you’ll find you have something to be grateful for… the stranger that held the door for you at the store or just the fact that you survived the day.

Personally, I can’t wait to pull this book out five years from now and reflect on what I was doing in 2013… who knows, maybe one day I’ll use it to prove to my kids that I was right about something :)  xo Amy

Go Get Yourself Some Flowers!

“A flowerless room is a soulless room, to my way of thinking; but even one solitary little vase of a living flower may redeem it.”  -  Vita Sackville-West

It’s been such a joy walking outside this last month and cutting fresh flowers from around my yard. Aren’t the lilacs above beautiful? I found them right outside my front door.

Before the lilacs bloomed, there were daffodils sprinkled throughout the woods in my backyard…

And for Easter Dinner I snipped branches off a tree in our side yard for our table…

What a difference fresh flowers make in a home! I don’t know about you, but sometimes I get so busy I forget to really look at whats around me.

I’m betting that if you walk outside with a pair of scissors this weekend, there’s something you can snip to bring a little joy to your home!  No? Then go and buy yourself a fresh-cut bouquet today- It’s Friday!

Yesterday I was so excited to kick off this trip with a visit to Kati for a facial! Ahhh… My face feels like butter today! I love this quote on her wall…

Don’t let your moments slip away this weekend! Take a breath, hug someone you love, be a glass is half full kind of guy or gal and count your blessings – they really are all around you! Moments become memories… Make them count! xo Amy

Games We Play

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I love a good game. I love football games, board games and even a few internet games. Games we play at home are part of the memories we create for the future. Think about it. Chances are some of your best childhood memories involve games. For me, favorite outdoor games were Kick Ball, Ghost in the Grave Yard, Kick the Can, Freeze Tag and Red Light, Yellow Light, Green Light STOP!

Indoors, some of my best childhood memories are about playing Monopoly, Trouble, and the Game of Life with family and friends. Do you remember where you were and who you were with when you played your last game of Charades? I’ll bet you two things: you weren’t a child, that you  were actually all grown up and you probably remember a particular phrase a friend acted out that caused everyone to LTAO all night long. That would be laughing their (fill in the blank) off all night long…sorry, keeping up with the texting crowd! But I digress…

Anyway, my point  is that when decorating our homes, we need to plan for the games we play. If you are saying, hmmmmm…. I don’t play any games – then I challenge you to change that. Games are about laughter, friends, family and memories. Games are good for the mind. If you can include them in your home, you’ll be happier for it! Here’s some great ways to incorporate games within your home’s decor and ideas for storage as well.

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Place a favorite game on a table between two chairs and always have an on going game with a family member. Good games for this are scrabble, checkers, chinese checkers or chess. You could also set a game on a coffee table and invite guests to do a word for fun. Even better, add a coffee table book about the game with strategies, photo’s, history and more.

Family Feud

Keep DVD’s of games for your TV stored in a drawer of an end or coffee table. Interactive games such as Family Feud, The Price is Right, Deal or No Deal, etc. are great when you have a gathering and can form teams. Break out a game out after a holiday dinner and it will beI promise a lively, memorable time for all ages!

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Have a Jenga game started when kids wake up on a day off from school or when guest come to a party. It’s a great way to start a day or break the ice at a party!

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Love to play Wii? Chances are that someone in your family does! A storage ottoman is a great way to provide extra seating for guests or a place to put up your feet. It’s also perfect to store your game gear. They come in lots of sizes and are perfect as a coffee table, tucked under a sofa table or in front of a fireplace. While you’re at it toss in a blanket for cool winter nights and make sure it’s big enough to a hold a guitar if you have guitar hero!

Well, gotta run…I’ve got an online scrabble game going on with a gradeschool friend. Hey Lori… Game on! xoxoxo

Simple Valentine Day Ideas for ‘I love You’ Memories

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Today I realized that Valentines Day is but 2 days away and I’m wondering what to do to make it a special day for the one’s that I love. It occurs to me, that making my family feel special doesn’t have to take alot of time or require a trip to the mall. The reality, is that my most memorable Valentine Day gifts weren’t a dozen red roses, but handmade gifts from my children or unexpected surprises. Those are the gifts I remember the best. So… in the spirit of creating memories, here are my simple, but from the heart Valentine suggestions, for the one’s you love.

  • Tuck a brief hand written love note into a briefcase, backpack. purse or lunchbag. Title it 5 Reasons Why I Love You and tell your someone special specifically what makes them special to you.
  • Surprise your family with dinner; complete with candles, a table cloth and your best china.  Side note: If you typically have problems getting home in time for dinner (like I do, lately) surprise them and actually BE there on time for a change.
  • Pick up some sugar cookie dough, cut it into heart shapes, bake and have a family decorating party complete with icing, sprinkles and sprinkles. Or, do the same thing with ice cream and make your own sundaes. The point here, is to do something other than the same old thing and create some special memories.
  • Send an e-mail  or text message to loved ones with hugs and kisses. xoxoxo

PS. Don’t forget about YOU! Buy yourself a scented candle, a special journal, or Oprah’s new book club selection -something to nourish your soul. After all, you’re very special too!